Healing Through Art – Butterfly of Hope | Watercolor Tutorial for Child Loss
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Butterfly of Hope Watercolor Tutorial
Art has a gentle way of meeting us in our grief, letting us express what words often cannot. I’m Raeanna Tilly, a watercolor artist, homeschool mama of five, and a believer in the healing power of creativity. Today, we’ll paint a butterfly — a symbol of transformation, remembrance, and quiet hope. This tutorial is for anyone walking through the deep ache of child loss. Your grief is real, your love is real, and this painting is a sacred space to breathe, reflect, and remember.
Even in the background, you might hear the sound of my children — their laughter, their play, the beautiful noises of life continuing. I chose to leave them in because they’re reminders that one day, we’ll hear all our children’s voices again, even the ones we never got to hold. You don’t have to be an artist to join me — you just have to show up, and allow yourself to express.
Why I Created This Healing Art Tutorial
After losing my daughter, Autumn Grace, I felt a profound need to process that grief creatively. Even though her life was small in time, it was infinitely precious, and her memory deserves to be honored. This butterfly is a tribute to her and a symbol for anyone grieving the loss of a child. Art becomes a place to acknowledge sorrow while inviting hope, faith, and remembrance.
Step-by-Step Watercolor Tutorial
Materials I Used:
- Mei Lang Pretty Excellent Watercolor set (student-grade, beginner-friendly)
- Mimic Round #6 and Princeton Neptune Round #10 brushes
- Paul Rubens 100% Cotton Cold Pressed Watercolor Paper
Step 1: Preparing the Butterfly
We start by wetting the wings of your printed butterfly outline with a clean, damp brush. This allows the pigment to flow and blend naturally. You can follow my outline, or create your own — there’s no “wrong” way here.
Step 2: Adding Base Colors
Using deep violet (PV23), rose red (PV19), and Prussian blue (PB27), we layer color from the tips toward the body, letting water carry the pigment naturally. This technique, called “charging,” creates soft gradients and a delicate, ethereal effect.
Step 3: Building Depth and Details
Once the wings are partially dry, we return with heavier pigment to add lines and shadows. I demonstrate using a “milk consistency” of violet and blue to give depth, and we mimic nature’s imperfection — art is meant to be expressive, not perfect. Use a toothbrush or damp brush to soften edges or blend as needed.
Step 4: Personalizing Your Butterfly
This is the heart of memorial art: you can add a name, symbols, or special marks that honor your child. For me, painting Autumn Grace’s butterfly was a way to celebrate her life and begin the journey of healing through remembrance.
Symbolism in the Butterfly
The butterfly represents transformation, delicate strength, and the eternal mark our loved ones leave. Its fragile wings remind us that life is precious and fleeting, yet even the smallest lives can have enormous impact. This painting can serve as both a memorial and a meditative practice, connecting us to faith, hope, and God’s comforting presence.
Creating Space for Healing Through Art
Painting a butterfly can be prayer in motion. As colors flow, we acknowledge sorrow, honor memory, and invite hope. You don’t need to be perfect — each “happy accident” is part of the journey. Let this tutorial guide you to a quiet place where your heart can breathe, reflect, and heal.
Closing Thoughts
Thank you for painting with me today. This butterfly is in honor of Autumn Grace, and a gentle reminder that even the smallest lives leave a mark. If you’ve lost a child, know that you are not alone. God is with you, and there is hope — one day, we will meet our children again in His presence.
Keep creating, keep breathing, and above all, Grow Hope.
✨ Grow Hope ✨
Disclaimer: The content provided in this blog and video tutorials is for educational and inspirational purposes only. I am not a medical professional, therapist, or psychologist, and this content is not a substitute for professional medical or mental health care. If you are experiencing severe grief, emotional distress, or any mental health concerns, please contact your personal physician, licensed therapist, or psychologist for professional guidance and support.
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Raeanna
Raeanna loves her home AT FORESTS EDGE. Cultivating life with a big family in America. She is a Watercolor Artist, Writer, Gardener & a Certified Herbalist.
